Today has been a very depressing day for me...i find myself feeling very lonely n low all of a sudden...so tot will blog.. and its been pretty long sisnce i blogged et all...the reason for me to feel this low is that i spent the whole day all alone...my frnd left to india yest...n i have no one to chat with, nobody to go to the gym with, nobody to go shopping with, nobody to have  lunch with, nobody to share my feelings with , nobody for me to sit n gossip with, nobody for me to try new dishes with, nobody for me to sit n talk old memories with, nobody to instant message with, no phone calls to attend n not nothing....just at home doing nothing at all...

                 shes gone to indian for 3 whole months...n what am i going to do....i dont wanna find anymore new friends... i am very comfortable n fine with her...though its for a very short time that we know each other we got pretty close...n now its so happened that i'm missing her so much...i'm just waiting to talk to her, i'm waiting for her to return, n i'm just waiting to sit n talk to her for hours n hours about nothing.I never knew that even after marriage a friend can take such a role in a girl's life... i'm very lucky to have a friend like her...gotto know that i like her so much only wen shes away n i'm missing her so much..

                  hope she remains my friend for life...n once again i miss her a lot n waiting for her to be back

 

Here are a few quotes on what friendship means to me:

 

Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.

Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.

To be depressed is to be lonely; to have a friend is to be happy

Friendship is a pretty full-time occupation if you really are friendly with somebody. You canít have too many friends because then youíre just not really friends

Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of joy you must have somebody to divide it with

Friendship is always a sweet responsibilty, never an oppourtunity

Life is partly what we make it, and partly what is made by the friends whom we choose

The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. I have no wealth to bestow on him. If he knows that I am happy in loving him, he will want no other reward. Is not friendship divine in this?

If you have deeper feelings for a friend,never reveal them you will lose that friend forever

A good friend is hard to find, hard to lose, and impossible to forget

The secret to friendship is being a good listener

Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say.

When your looking for a friend don't look for perfection, just look for friendship

Silences make the real conversations between friends. Not the saying but the never needing to say is what counts...

I see this tag in every almost every blog... so i tot even i should blog abt this....

 

 

- on getting most of the things done my way being the youngest at home n being my dad's gal.

- those visits to cofffee days n baristas during college days n being back home before mom's back frm work(hope mom doesnt read this)

- answering my hubby's fone call( after  our teeny tiny fights) even after making a 1000 resolutions not to..

- considered teachers' pet during school n college days even after being so naughty n troublesome..

- being pampered even after marriage being first daughter-in-law n again being young( my tool- my age!!!)

 

 

- my early childhood days in jayanagar with so many frnds n me being very dominative.

- the day i met with an accident n kept in the ICU for the whole day- cldnt see the tension on my dad n mom's faces

- the day my bro's student visa got rejected and the day he got it (10 days later)..

- the day my bro left to the US ..oh man!!! thats wen i realised how much i love him n how much i would miss him..

- my final year at jain college...had so much fun...all fun n no studies makes shubha a bright gal!!!

- the day i met Nana for the first time in my life n was not willing to marry him n told him the same (nov-6th)

- the day i accepted his proposal after a 1000 people coaxed me to (nov-9th)

- the day i got married to my hero!!!!( apr-30th)

- the day i left for seattle... cldnt see my dad cry...(my eyes r filled with tears as i write this)

 

 

- the days soon after marriage...leaving parents for the first time in 21 yrs... n the cries over phone

- initial days in seattle...were very depressing ...felt like running away to india

 

 

- dad's avial n more koyambu

- mom's specialities...

- burgers at indiana (b'lore)

- tropical temptation at coffee day....slurrrp!!!!

- n ofcourse my specialities....can cook pretty well  now

 

 

 

- wen i met with an accident...n my B.P shot up that high i had to be put in the ICU

 

 

- Madhavan in alaipayuthey

- Surya in khaka khaka

- Shahrukh in swades

 

 

- me climbing a real huge tower, n not able to make it back to the ground!!!

 

 

- hubby's gift on our first date(12nov just a day before our engagement)

- again hubby's gift frm his first salary at MS

- again hubby's gift for valentines day

- friends gift for my engagement.....

- parents gift for my first b'day after wedding

 

 

 

                            Everyone must be having big ????? going around their heads reading the title....ok lemme break the suspense...the new LOVE means the love i developed for COOKING....n trust me its only after marriage that i entered the kitchen at all... n learnt a lot over phone...thanks to vonage....thats to my mother -in-law n mom ofcourse...its they who tot me everything rite from switching on the stove to putting it off....atleast mom did that coz she knows how responsible her daughter is...its for one month frm wen i came from india i was getting cooking lessons over the phone...n now....from the encouragement i got from my hubby n a few of his frnds...i can cook pretty well..never ever dreamt that i'd be cooking this well at all...n my hubby being a food lover, simply loves my cooking n enjoys eating anything that i prepare...i got so much more of a confidence only frm his encouragement...n today i can prepare a lot of things...its just that i need to get the menu n i can do most things pretty tasty...weekdays its my choice n weekends I take an off - so my hubby decides...u can have ur turn too